In the Middle of Nowhere, You Find Yourself


I came across the following quote somewhere and this has captured my attention to a great extent.

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I’ve felt the above quote to be very true. It is really out of  nowhere and in the middle of nowhere, you discover yourself. Even when the whole world is against you, there is an inner voice that will wake you up. That inner voice speaks to you and makes you realize the reality. The inner voice knows you better more than your mother. The inner voice trusts you and it believes you. And when you start to listen and trust your inner voice, it is then you discover yourself.

I’ve a modified version of the above quote.

When you start to listen to your inner voice,

When you start to believe your inner voice,

When you start to follow your inner voice,

You discover yourself at that moment.

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Anoop

© People and Hearts

The Borderline of Being Single or Being Commited


I’m starting the first lines of this post with this unknown quote,

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The quote has said it all as it is loud and clear to what it refers. I arrived at this point of time to write on a state of mind and heart when both are not in sync with each other. I call this state as the Borderline that will decide whether a person is single or is in a committed relationship. The situation could be a disaster for a person who is currently in a relationship. On the contrary, the situation could be a reason of instant excitement and relief who is currently single.

Borderline

I’m narrating two scenarios. Read on…

When a person, who is single, looks around the people around him and finds the following things:

  • The people who are in a relationship are not happy with the love in their relationship.
  • They spend more time complaining and pulling each others legs.
  • The same people spend more time in finding faults with each other.
  • There is ‘ego and hatred in the air’ but ‘not love in the air’.
  • People’s self respect and freedom are put to scrutiny.
  • People are not allowed to follow their dream and passion.
  • People are not allowed to talk and socialize with their friends.
  • People are forced to show a fabricated love by hiding their true inner feelings and emotions.
  • People are crying inside but acting as if they are happy.
  • People telling to others that they are in love but actually they are in misery.

It is here that the person who is single, feels that he was fortunate not to be part of this egoistic and fabricated love.

When a person, who is single, looks around the people around him and finds the following things:

  • The people who are in a relationship are really smiling happily by holding each others hands.
  • The same people are communicating with their eyes more than with their words.
  • There are flowers flying all over along with natural and raw love.
  • The same people are allowed to follow their own passions and dreams.
  • People are allowed to socialize with their respective friend’s circle yet respecting each others privacy and space.
  • People are more understanding and sensible to deal with their sacrifices and lives.
  • People are making their relationship as well as themselves special and loving happily.
  • There is real and natural love in the air and everywhere.
  • Couples holding a single umbrella under the rain.
  • The same people are friends in real life and they are in love with each other.

It is here that the person who is single, feels that he was unfortunate not to be part of this real and natural love.

I feel that I’m fortunate not to be part of that fabricated love. This is why I’m taking my own time to find that natural love.

Anoop

© People and Hearts