Being Different and Following Your Heart

It takes a lot of courage and immense courage to be different from others. Being different is not only difficult but thinking differently is another hard thing to do. It’s not for the weak-hearted souls.

When you stop following the crowd, it’s the beginning of the change. The change is a welcome freshness to your life. But you have to sustain that change and carry it forward. It’s because there will always be people everywhere to pinpoint your mistakes and demotivate you. And the common crowd think that you are uncool and crazy.

This is where your character is put to test. Let the common crowd speak their mind, you just have to hold on to what you believe in. But if you are shaky here, then all your efforts are fruitless.

Ignore the negative comments and grab the essential ones. Just keep doing what you believe in. It doesn’t matter how long it takes to reach the destination.

Just keep doing what you believe in.

If all the likeminded minds thought the same way, then the world will be a darn boring place to live. All great inventions and extraordinary changes are due to the the people who thought and lived differently.

Dare to be different. Think differently and follow your heart consistently. This is the coolest thing you can do.

  • Anoop © People and Hearts

Confident Enough to Sport a New Look?

Lately, a new look or style would have caught your attention. You think that this style will suit you and you really want to give it a try.

But you hold back by thinking what others will think about you. Will they laugh at you?

Don’t bother about others! If you feel that this look suits you and you are confident enough to carry it off. Just relax!

Take in a breath of fresh air and with ooze of confidence sport whichever hairstyle or look you like. Don’t worry. You can carry it off in style.

Only, ‘Attitude’ matters!

– Anoop
People and Hearts

Live Your Life the Way You Wished

There are two types of people on this earth. They are

  1. People who live their life the way they wished and loved. I name them as Achievers.
  2. People who live their life on others’ terms and they bury their dreams. I name them as Losers.

In the life of Achievers, they are fun loving people as they do what they love. Achievers are brave as they would back up their dreams when someone opposes or criticizes it. They are ready to face the world and they live in the present life. Achievers support themselves even when no one is with them. They don’t care what others think but they keep doing what they feel is good and right. Their life doesn’t have boundaries. Achievers believe in themselves. Due to this, they achieve their dreams and are called Achievers.

In the world of Losers, they live a life for others’ sake. Their world is very narrow and restricted with boundaries. They worry about what other people will think about them. They forget what their dreams are and they stop dreaming. Losers never believe in themselves.

I belong to the league of achievers as I do what I love and I live my life in my own way. I feel pity for the losers. I wish everyone should become achievers. Unless and until, people themselves decide to change themselves, there will be a change.


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Going Bald with Attitude

Only few men are blessed with Baldness, a condition when men tend to lose their hair and become bald. However, only a few from that lot accept the reality that they are bald. While the rest of them hide themselves with a wig and fake themselves to the world. I’m writing this post addressing to those brave men who accept the reality and to those men who run away from the reality.

Sporting the Bald Look...
Sporting the Bald Look…

I see a majority of men sporting a wig to hide their baldness. They consider themselves to be weak before the rest of the world without hair on their head. They lose their confidence and self-esteem. And they fake it by taking this escape route. But when an other person sees them and finds out that it’s a wig. At that time, they feel very low about themselves. And from the other person’s perspective, the guy sporting a wig is considered a coward.

Now, consider those brave men who sport the bald look with attitude. They accept the reality and fact that they are bald. They consider themselves lucky to be bald. These men go bald gracefully. The baldness shows that the they are shouting to the world about their new bald look. These brave men have lost only their hair but they possess optimism, broad outlook, courageousness and more importantly the attitude. It is this attitude that makes them sexy.

Being bald is sexy and cool.

In order to prove few of my friends wrong, I went for the complete bald look. And that took people around me by surprise. They asked me that if I had gone mad? I said that I needed a change. I know the I will become bald after 10 years, so I thought how would I look after 10 years without hair. So I decided to try the complete bald look. I chose the right time for the look, as it was the arrival of summer season.

Yes, I just loved my new style. In order to compliment that look, I wore a brown bead chain and sported my favorite Goatee beard and black aviators. I went for the gangsta style with attitude.  But I did not sport an earring. As usual, people with narrow mindset hated my new look and there were people who just liked my style very much. But I didn’t mind.

I was sending a message to the world that going bald is so cool and sexy. After some days, another guy sported the bald look with a french beard. When we happened to meet each other, we smiled and gave a firm handshake. We have never spoken to each other before but the bald factor made us to connect instantly.

So, it is the attitude that makes the difference. I’m very happy to sport this bald look. It gives you style, attitude and the additional confidence to your personality.

Few famous bald personalities and celebrities

  • Bruce Willis – A German-born American actor, producer, and musician
  • Dwayne ‘The Rock’ Johnson – An American actor and professional wrestler
  • Andre Agassi – An American retired professional tennis player
  • ‘Stone Cold’ Steve Austin – A television actor, producer, and retired professional wrestler
  • Vin Diesel – An American actor, writer, director, and producer
  • Herschelle Gibbs – A South African Cricketer
  • Gary Kirsten – A South African Cricketer


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